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Another World Is Possible<\/strong><\/h2>\n

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Dom Kelly<\/strong><\/h3>\n

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Editor’s note: This was originally published on Medium.com on May 1, 2024<\/strong><\/p>\n

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I woke up at 5:52am this morning, just two minutes before my first alarm. God, do I hate it when that happens. I didn\u2019t get great sleep last night and admittedly went to bed way too late. Being away from my wife and daughter always screws up my sleep, but I wound up staying up pretty late glued to both the TV and social media. My feed was filled with videos of NYPD officers dressed in full riot gear and marching down the street onto the campus of Columbia University. My heart raced as I watched them approach the school, climb onto a crane, and enter the building through a window. Militarized police on college campuses. Scared but steadfast students holding the line. Parents, I imagined, at home, worrying for their children\u2019s safety. All the while, thousands of miles away, bombs are actively dropping on Rafah in Gaza. Again, parents worrying about their children\u2019s safety. Watching them die before their very eyes.<\/p>\n

What is this world?<\/p>\n

As I got up this morning, the videos still swirling through my head, all I wanted to do was FaceTime my girls (as I call them.) My loves. Black and Jewish women living in a world that isn\u2019t for them. How can I keep them safe?<\/p>\n

How can I build a new world?<\/p>\n

This entire week I\u2019m in Illinois, one hour behind my family at home in Atlanta. I\u2019m a yearlong fellow with Rockwood Leadership Institute, and this is our second in-person convening so far this year. Getting to know and learn with this cohort of movement and social justice leaders has been unbelievably powerful and transformative. I have been looking forward to this week since our last convening four months ago. And yet, months later, we\u2019re still here. Still watching this genocide unfold before our eyes. Still in a pandemic. Still having to face the reality of either a Biden or Trump presidency after this year.<\/p>\n

Still in the same world.<\/p>\n

Today\u2019s session was focused on strategy \u2014 specifically strategy for the long term. How do we shift the way we as leaders think about and develop strategy from a shorter term, organizationally-focused mindset to one rooted in and centered around the \u201clong generational arc.\u201d In other words, how are we strategizing for a movement that creates the kind of world we want to see for our children and grandchildren and beyond?<\/p>\n

To be frank, I entered our space this morning feeling skeptical.<\/p>\n

Maybe it was the lack of sleep, or the media consumption that kept my brain wired for too long. Maybe it was the heaviness we all carried knowing that one of the members of our cohort and her husband, both Palestinian Americans, were arrested just two days prior while protesting on a college campus, and that she couldn\u2019t join us this week because he was hospitalized after a brutal and vicious beating by police. Maybe it was because the viral video of his brutal beating randomly found its way onto my feed last night during my doom scroll. Maybe it was also the constant barrage of texts from Jewish family members yesterday blasting me for my pro-Palestinian activism. Maybe it was also thinking about friends who abandoned masking and community care getting COVID once again. Maybe it was bird flu fears. Maybe it was a little of everything all at once.<\/p>\n

Whatever the reason, I really didn\u2019t want to think about the \u201clong arc.\u201d Shit felt a little too bleak for that. Yes, in my head, in that moment, it was all about me.<\/p>\n

I listened though. I listened as we heard about the wins of indigenous communities. As our facilitator helped us understand and articulate our purpose and goals. As we were guided to make our strategy \u201cflexible\u201d and consider the short term tactics that could hinder our long term strategy.<\/p>\n

Near the end of the long afternoon today, we were tasked with breaking into small groups to think about what purpose we were working toward for \u201cour people.\u201d We were to brainstorm the values that undergirded that purpose and the outcomes of a long term strategy toward that purpose.<\/p>\n

I couldn\u2019t help but think, at that moment, about a text that a family member sent to me just 24 hours before. \u201cRemember who your people are, Dom.\u201d They were referring to the Jewish people. That person wanted to remind me that my loyalty should be to the Jewish people, and by default, the Israeli people and the Israeli government.<\/p>\n

When our small group got together and had to define who \u201cour people\u201d were, we agreed it was all of humanity. It was all of us\u2013Jewish, Muslim, Christian, Black, white\u2013everyone. And as we articulated our purpose, it became clear that the goal was collective liberation. We started to put on paper the values and outcomes we associated with a world where all people were liberated: interdependence, community care, freedom from systems of oppression, meeting everyone\u2019s needs. This was an exciting exercise.<\/p>\n

But as we walked back into the larger room to share, I felt that same skepticism I walked in with this morning. Was this idealistic? A pipe dream? How the fuck could we build a long arc strategy toward this world we wanted to see? A world which seems so unattainable?<\/p>\n

As I settled in my chair, I looked around and it hit me; we were already creating it together, in this space, in our container.<\/p>\n

Every person in the room was masked and every person in the room had COVID tested each day we were together. There was a HEPA air purifier behind me cleaning the air. People were already organizing to get resources for our colleague whose husband had been brutalized by the police. People were sitting in chairs, laying on the floor, standing against the wall, taking their shoes off\u2013showing up in our space however they needed to. Throughout the day folks had taken breaks, walked outside, gone to rest, and everyone else gave them grace. We helped each other through difficult situations and found ways as movement leaders to support each other in our work and personal lives.<\/p>\n

Our multiracial, multiethnic, gender diverse, cross-religious, intergenerational, queer affirming cohort of brilliant and accomplished leaders was literally creating the kind of world we wanted to see right there in this room. Together.<\/p>\n

I shared this thought with the group, with tears welling up in my eyes and gratitude overflowing, especially as a disabled person in this space. A room like this, where collective access, interdependence, and solidarity were not merely ideas but practices, was new to me and completely overwhelming.<\/p>\n

As our shares ended, one member of our cohort, a minister, made an announcement: the United Methodist Church has, as of today, voted to remove all anti-gay language from their doctrine and repeal the ban on LGBTQIA+ clergy.<\/p>\n

The kind of change we all want to see is happening.<\/p>\n

Another world is possible.<\/p>\n

ABOUT<\/strong><\/h3>\n
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A white man with curly dark hair, glasses, and tattoos on his arms and chest, wearing an orange and white patterned shirt with black pants. He\u2019s sitting down in front of a dark green background.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Dom Kelly is the Co-Founder, President &amp; CEO of New Disabled South, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization, and New Disabled South Rising, its 501(c)(4) arm. He has been organizing in the South since 2009, committed to building a progressive future for disabled people in his region. His previous roles as a senior advisor and founding staff of Stacey Abrams\u2019 gubernatorial campaign, and as a lead fundraiser and advisor for her voting rights organization Fair Fight Action, both led him to make his vision for New Disabled South a reality.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Dom is one of a set of triplets born with Cerebral Palsy and has been a disability advocate since he was four years old. Starting when he was a young teenager, Dom and his brothers played around the world with their rock band A Fragile Tomorrow, touring and collaborating with artists like Indigo Girls, Joan Baez, Toad the Wet Sprocket, The Bangles and more and releasing 6 records over 15+ years.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

He received a Master of Science in Nonprofit Leadership degree from the University of Pennsylvania\u2019s School of Social Policy and Practice where he also received the Excellence in Social Impact award. Additionally, he holds a bachelor\u2019s degree in music production, a master\u2019s degree in journalism, an executive certificate in social impact strategy, and a graduate certificate in interdisciplinary disability studies. Dom was chosen as a 2024 Rockwood National Leading From the Inside Out Yearlong Fellow and as one of ten winners of The J.M. Kaplan Fund\u2019s 2023 Innovation Prize. He was a 2021 New Leaders Council fellow, serves as Chair for the board of The Kelsey, as Treasurer for the board of Disability Victory, and as a member of the NationSwell Council. Dom lives in Atlanta, Georgia with his wife Catie, their daughter Mahalia, and their dog Vivi.<\/span><\/p>\n

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